Potential new sister-in-law is a rabid liberal anti-Trumper---how do I handle it?

I lived in Nebraska all my life, until recently when I got fed up with the high taxes and stupid gun control laws and moved to America. One thing I liked about nebraska though was the divorce laws there. I've been married and divorced three times, in Nebraska each time. And I never once got "taken to the cleaners." Maybe the divorce laws in Washington are different. But in Nebraska, the only claim a new wife has to money or property is anything that was acquired during the marriage, and only half of that; she has no claim to anything that was owned prior to the marriage.

I've had a few friends who got totally screwed over by a gold digger, usually one they met in a bar. One was even able to force her husband to pay for her lawyer, which meant that she didn't mind spending tens of thousands of dollars on lawyers fees chasing after less money than she spent getting it. Others got their wife a credit card with both names on it, and the man ended up getting stuck with a massive debt their gold-digging wife ran up. I would suggest that things like bank accounts and credit cards be kept separate; he has his and she has hers. A lot of women get vindictive as well as greedy when the divorce comes.

Liberalism is a corrupt ideology based in intolerance, envy, and hate. Anyone who gets married to someone who is ate up with that ideology is in for a bad time.

If you study liberal propaganda on TV and in movies, one message that is commonly sold is that women are supposed to betray their husbands. Anyone who buys into liberal propaganda will buy into all of it. So you can be sure that any feminist he marries has had the seed of betrayal planted into her, and it will be nurtured by the liberal propaganda machines and her liberal friends.

One thing he should keep in mind is that a likely betrayal is her making a charge of domestic violence at some point. If she does, she will probably be believed, and he will lose his right to have a gun for the rest of his life. This alone is enough to keep me from having a liberal woman in my house. I have never been physically or mentally rough with a woman, having been raised to be a gentleman, but that doesn't matter; if a false charge is made, it is likely to be believed.

I had sex with a feminist once and it was so boring I actually had to fake an organism. And she was really nice-looking. But she did not seem feminine at all. Maybe your brother's experience is different though.

Because of the nature of liberalism, I would council my brother to detach himself from the bigot he's seeing. He is not likely to take your advice, but at least you'll be able to say I told you so. I would also council him to talk to a lawyer about maybe a prenuptial agreement, or at least get advice on how to protect his assets from what is almost certain to be a divorce.

As far as how do you relate to her, when I'm around an indoctrinated liberal I see it as an opportunity to engage in deprogramming activity. It is not likely that someone as deeply indoctrinated into the liberal cult as the one you describe will be affected by deprogramming, but it is possible that you could introduce a spark of critical thinking into her indoctrinated head that could grow. And more important, it's fun.

Just approach her from the standpoint that she is a member of a cult, and you are trying to help her break free of the cult indoctrination. And never let off of that truth. You deprogram an indoctrinated cult member by showing them where the lies used to control them don't add up. To do that you need to do a lot of homework by studying the various issues.

Experts on deprogramming say that deprogramming doesn't work very well because the cult member has been clad in a kind of armor. Anything that conflicts with cult ideology is said to be "of the devil," and is simply discounted out of hand, no matter how much sense it might make. In the case of the liberal cult the devil is Fox News, the right wing, Republicans, the NRA, and so on.

You can expect to see this armor used by your subject. But don't let it deter you. She is not likely to be deprogrammed, but like I said, it's fun.

If she starts saying good things about Islam, raise your hand like you're going to hit her and say "silence woman!" And when she gets mad about it say you are being multi-cultural and treating her like Islamic men treat the women in their culture. (This is a joke; don't actually do this.)

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Potential new sister-in-law is a rabid liberal anti-Trumper---how do I handle it?